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Thursday, 18 April 2013

Real One

Relationship – If you’re not comfortable enough with yourself or with your own truth when entering a relationship, then you’re not ready for that relationship. Do you always feel that maintaining a relationship isn’t easy? It’s a very common thing that couple fights. But it may be a ‘good’ fight that helps you to improve. When both of you manage to take arguments and learn it from the mistakes. Congrats, I bet that both of you are lovely couple. J

I always think of looking a ‘right person’ in my relationship, but in fact, I can’t. There’s only the real one. Let me explain, a right person – who can understand you without speaking a word. You feel that everything is right. Everything is just perfect. But the real one – can’t read your mind if you don’t speak. But listen patiently and try to understand you. You don’t feel right at all when comes to fights, or both of you can’t communicate. But will take that as experiences, and avoid them when happen again. We always learn from the past relationships, and want to be better for the next one. Well, I’m. And all my previous relationships taught me that, we need to know that relationships are not perfect. It’ll never be unless you found the key that how to maintain a relationship - be tolerating, and TRUST.
You can love anyone very deeply, but if you can’t find a way to maintain it, it’ll just back to zero. Just don’t give up because times are hard, especially if you really want something. Keep fighting for what you want until you can’t fight anymore, until giving up is the only option left. When you’re ready for this relationship, don’t let it go. You’ll never know that you can change the real one to become your right one. J