Real One

 

Relationship – If you’re not comfortable enough with yourself or with your own truth when entering a relationship, then you’re not ready for that relationship. Do you always feel that maintaining a relationship isn’t easy? It’s a very common thing that couple fights. But it may be a ‘good’ fight that helps you to improve. When both of you manage to take arguments and learn it from the mistakes. Congrats, I bet that both of you are lovely couple. J

I always think of looking a ‘right person’ in my relationship, but in fact, I can’t. There’s only the real one. Let me explain, a right person – who can understand you without speaking a word. You feel that everything is right. Everything is just perfect. But the real one – can’t read your mind if you don’t speak. But listen patiently and try to understand you. You don’t feel right at all when comes to fights, or both of you can’t communicate. But will take that as experiences, and avoid them when happen again. We always learn from the past relationships, and want to be better for the next one. Well, I’m. And all my previous relationships taught me that, we need to know that relationships are not perfect. It’ll never be unless you found the key that how to maintain a relationship - be tolerating, and TRUST.

You can love anyone very deeply, but if you can’t find a way to maintain it, it’ll just back to zero. Just don’t give up because times are hard, especially if you really want something. Keep fighting for what you want until you can’t fight anymore, until giving up is the only option left. When you’re ready for this relationship, don’t let it go. You’ll never know that you can change the real one to become your right one. J

Idarts - Part Of My Life

Mushi Mushi! Hello! Been missing in action but never forget about my blog and readers. Make Up My Mind --- it started with my dream. The name of my blog reminds me of how much I love make up, and my mind reminds me of who I'm. My life, sharing life.

Today I'm going to talk about part of my life. Few days ago, I joined a competition which it's "Idarts Ladies Challenge 2013" Guess most of the people know about Idarts? It's a new and famous addiction in town. Entertainment which I found out that it can makes me happy. And it really works whenever I feel that way. Well, I'm addicted on it, and it slowly becomes "Part Of My Life." Btw, the competition was on Wednesday (20th March) Actually, honestly speaking, I didn't think of joining it at the first place. But no regrets, it was really a good try. I gained a lot during the competition. Facing people and control your nervous. Although I can't. Haha, *hand was shaking so badly that night* But I gain confidences and experiences. Met a lot of darts lovers, and their sharing experiences.

I do remember the first time I played, it was a year plus ago. I broke the darts. That's impossible right? Feeling embarrassing tho. And now I can't believe that I'm joining competition. I don't mean that i'm good in playing with it,but at least I'm proud of myself that I never give up at all. Trained hard a few weeks to get prepare for competition, been hanging out in Idarts 4-5 days in a week. That's really crazyyyy. Haha. Well, I love darts! Especially thanks to the people who teach me, practice with me, picking me up and down. People who came and supported me that night. REALLY APPRECIATE LOADS! Thank you~ thank you~

Anyway,congrats to Vivian the champion and Vee Siow the 1st runner up. Everyone is doing great that night. *really good in it* Clap-clap! Never give up and bring yourself down, I did it today :) It ain't easy for the first step, but if you choose to give up, you'll lose a good chance that might happen in your future. I believe everyone can do it. :) Loves.xoxo.

I just DO IT

Something that you may not have done, still trying hard, or still figuring? We know that we do not have everything under our control, something in life that how much it means to you. That's the reason why we have the word of 'give up' Giving up those that you can't success it, those that you can't get it back. Anyone can give up, it's the easier things to do. But when you hold yourself while everyone thinks you can't, that's the true strength.

We've a choice. Things happen in life that we can't stop, but doesn't mean we should stop. Right now, push away all the negative saying. I just want to say, "DO IT!" do it and live like there is no tomorrow. What if there is no tomorrow, what you want to do in your life? I'm not referring robbing, stealing, etc. It's something which you left behind. Something which you don't have the guts to do it last time. In fact, I bet everyone has the strength to do it, if there is no tomorrow. :P HAHAHA.

Why don't we give a try? Try to complete something that you've not done. Just today, and one thing. After reading this, give yourself some confidence! And I just did it for today. It's not a big thing, but something that I left behind and words that I wanted to say. I sent a text to someone who used to be in my life. You're not alone. And I hope that we are living better :) jia you!

Thanks for your time reading this, I'll try out something new in my blog :) Loves.xoxo REMEMBER DO IT!

Decisions

Right or Wrong?

It's hard to make a decision. But it's harder to make a right decision. However, you should know that there may not always be a 'correct' or 'prefect' among all the decisions. You ask opinions from 100 peoples, but you may get back 100 different types of answers. Maybe the most terrible thing it's, you ask yourself but it ends up get back 100 answers. Have you been through this before? Afraid of making a decision. Been thinking over and over again just to make sure you won't be regret of choosing it. But the fact it's, over thinking will miss the obvious. If you do realize it, you've forgotten why you stand for in the first place. Make your mind clear, choose the most comfortable one, and the most confidence one :) There is no right or wrong. We can't predict our future, but doesn't mean you can't imaging it or making a choice. Don't ask yourself so much, just live, because I found out that life is never long enough. There are some things you can never control. 

*Don't wait til everything is just right. It will never be prefect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than prefect conditions. So get started now. With everything step you take, you'll grow stronger and stronger*

I should make a decision now :P Hope you enjoy reading :) Loves.xoxo.

Dreams

Dreams?

It ain't hard to make a dream comes true, but it's depends you want to make it real or not. What's your dream? :) Hhmmm.. What about my dream? To be honestly, I'm still finding. I'm kind of confusing what I want in the future. Is there anyone same as me? sigh. I know I shouldn't have this negative thinking. Yes, I shouldn't! I believe that one day I can find it, but it just needs times. Agree?

What do I feel about dreams? I feel that, life is all about dreams. When you've a dream, you'll start thinking how you going to success it. What's the feeling when you success it. A lot of imaginations. A lot of hopes. I feel that dreams are beautiful. Everyone fights for their life just because of their dreams. It's going to be hard with every first step, suffers, painful, tears, hurts, but all these are just the processing. You're not going to take all these for your dreams! These are just lessons to make you tough. Don't give excuses for yourself to give up. Because I'm so glad for those people who found their dreams. There are some of them, *like me* are still searching it. Keep holding!

I'll share with you if I found my dream :) And you! You'll find yours one day. I believe in that :) *Don't you worry, God has a plan for you* never stop believing.

Anyway, it's random. But just a sharing. Video of my wedding shoot. Hope you enjoy it! Loves.xoxo.

Someone Like You

Someone like you.

Hmmm, where to find someone like you? A person who makes you fall in love the first sight. And you'll start staring at the person. Your heart beats fast. Butterflies feeling. You feel shy when you talk to the person. But at the same time, you want to know more about the person. Pretending that you don't care at all, but actually you're. You smile with no reason and care like nobody's business. Small little action can catches your eyes and your attention. Just like the first love feeling?

I guess this feeling only happens during your secondary school time. Isn't it? Not trying to say it won't happen anymore after graduate. But somehow, maybe it's not the right timing, not the right person. And we miss it. Maybe you found the right one, but it's just the timing problem. If you found one, keep holding on, don't let go. Try to fix it. If you both allow yourselves to step into each other shoes, you'll get to understand the person more. Respect for each other issues. It's challenging for both of you, but well it worth it isn't it? :) Don't lose someone like her/him. FIGHT FOR IT :)

*love is a heart filled with affection for the most important person in your life. Love is looking at the special someone who makes your world go around. And absolutely loving what you see. Love gives meaning to one's world and magic to million hopes and dreams. Love is an invaluable bond that enriches every good thing in life* sharing :)

Hope you enjoy reading.hehee. Loves.xoxo.

My Life

Hello, I'm back! I guess I've been stop writing my blog for a few months. Wondering readers still remember that I used to blog a lot? or some don't even know that I've a blog? Haha. Hmmmm, anyway what should I start with this? I guess I'll just start it with the reason why I stop blogging. Just because of my working time, Like seriously tiring, and I had not enough time for myself. But WHATEVER la, I'm here. haha. Honestly, I'm enjoying myself when I'm blogging, I miss blogging :/ just like writing a diary, *although this is public diary, lol* but it's my way of expressing my feeling. I'm enjoying! I hope that you enjoy yourself when you're reading too.

Btw, Do you trust Feng sui? Like animal Feng Sui. I born in Monkey year. According to the master, this year is not going to be a good year for me. I don't know it happens to you or not, but to me, yes. Last time I will just take it like 50% 50% ,don't over believe it. But after today, I've to admit that I trust. Just like the first day of 2013, bad things are non-stop happening to me. But well, I always set my mind that, "learn from mistakes, and everything happens for a reason" Always have a positive thinking *even though sometimes I'm kind of negative person* but I'm learning :) What to do, Life still goes on, we've to move on. Everyone wants to be happy, but why would I find trouble to myself? It's just making me unhappy. I hope that this sentence will appear on your mind too, when you're feeling down, like "end of the world" is coming. But TRY! We're not weak, we can stand for once again. Just like the beginning how we did.

*I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so you can learn to let go. Things go wrong so you can appreciate them when they are right. You believe lies so you eventually know not to trust anymore but yourself. and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together* This is what I found, and wanna share with you :)

Anyway it's a new beginning for me! EVERYTHING IS NEW. But there is one thing that will never change it's my family and my friends. Something may just comes and destroys everything you build. I had a hard time to been thru this. But what I gain it's, I learn to appreciate more. Thanks for believing me. You choose to feel me and not by judging or listening from other people. You listen to my story and you direct me in a right way. If you think I change, yes I did change, but for a better one! At least I know that I tried my best. We learn, so we change and turn to another person who we wouldn't know. But that person! Is becoming stronger! Feel the person with your eyes, and your heart, your smile and the tears. Those are real :)

All these are my feelings, thanks for your time for reading. Loves.xoxo.